How to be a plant parent!
- Neelam B.
- Feb 14
- 4 min read
For my first blog post, I had to give a nod to the inspiration behind my name and brand The Biophilic Life! In early 2024, as I was brainstorming ideas, I searched up words for the meaning of "the love of nature".
Biophilia, a term introduced by American biologist Edward O. Wilson in the 1980s, reflects our natural tendency to connect with nature. The benefits of nature in our surroundings are one of, if not the most important keys to keeping us balanced and healthy humans.
In fact Ayurveda, "the science of life" (of which I am a student), also stresses the importance of keeping ourselves in balance as we are also part of nature. So, embracing biophilia is not just beneficial; it’s a pathway to nurturing our environment and ourselves.
Speaking or singing to our plants also helps to nurture them. The vibrations of our voices are known to help them grow. I remember, when the children were toddlers and learning how to talk, I used to to have them help me water the house plants and they would gently stroke the leaves and say "grow , grow, grow". A few years ago, this article spoke of the same things I was teaching my children! https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/jan/11/they-respond-to-vibrations-does-talking-to-plants-actually-help-them-grow#:~:text=%E2%80%9CPlants%20probably%20don't%20hear,yelling%20at%20them%20won't.
Understanding Biophilia
Derived from the Greek words for life and love, biophilia encapsulates our innate desire to connect with the natural world. Studies reveal that homes filled with plants lead to measurable benefits, such as a 30% decrease in feelings of anxiety. The presence of greenery can refresh our spirits, provide comfort, and help combat the stresses of everyday life.

When my eldest son went away to university, I gave him a snake plant to take care of in his room as I knew it would help keep the air clean and also provide him with the responsibility of being a "Plant Dad"! When we talk on the phone, I always ask how "Snaky" is doing and we often discuss the ups and downs of his caring for it, such as how much he's watering it, if the leaves are supposed to be that colour and if it's getting enough sun. All of the bedrooms at the house also have a snake plant so that the air quality as we sleep, is better.
So, how do you become a plant parent? Here are three essential tips for selecting the perfect plants!
1. Assess Your Space
Before you buy a single plant, take a close look at your surroundings. Consider these aspects:
Lighting conditions: Does your room get plenty of sunlight? South-facing areas usually receive bright, direct light, which is great for sun-loving plants. In contrast, north-facing spaces might require plants that thrive in lower light.
Humidity and temperature: Is your home humid or dry? For example, tropical plants like ferns and orchids enjoy humidity, whereas succulents prefer drier air. Knowing your home's climate will help you make suitable choices.
Available space: Think about how much room you can dedicate to plants. For smaller spaces, hanging plants like string of hearts can save valuable surface area, while larger floor plants such as rubber trees or palms can make bold statements.
By assessing your environment, you will be better prepared to choose plants that will thrive in your care.
2. Choose the Right Plants for Your Level of Experience
Not everyone has a "green thumb" and that is completely fine! Picking plants that match your experience level is vital for success. Here’s a simple guide:
Low-maintenance plants: If you are new to caring for plants, consider options like pothos or snake plants. Both are forgiving and can adapt to various lighting conditions.
Moderate care plants: If you have some experience, explore spider plants or peace lilies. These require a bit more attention but still offer a manageable challenge.
High-care plants: For confident plant parents, options like orchids or fiddle leaf figs will provide rewarding experiences. They demand specific care but can thrive beautifully with the right attention.
Choosing plants suited to your skill level will help maintain your enthusiasm for plant care!
3. Embrace the Diversity of Plants
Diversity is our strength as they say, and this is especially true when it comes to the plants in our homes. Exploring various species can yield unique benefits and add beauty. Keep these ideas in mind:
Foliage: Try different leaf shapes and colours. Pair large-leafed plants like monstera with small ferns to create an appealing contrast. For example, a combination of a tall monstera and cascading ferns can draw the eye and create a
Flowers: Incorporate flowering plants like African violets or bromeliads to introduce colour into your living space. Their vibrant blooms will serve as a captivating highlight in any room.
Herbs: For those who love to cook, growing culinary herbs such as basil or rosemary in kitchen windows adds both beauty and practicality. Fresh herbs can elevate your meals and inspire your culinary creativity.
By embracing a range of plants, you’ll cultivate a sanctuary that reflects your personal style!
Nurturing Your Plant Connection
Becoming a plant parent goes beyond mere decoration. It’s about cultivating a connection with nature in our increasingly digital lives. Understanding biophilia and its benefits can create a more serene and happy home.
Choosing the right plants does not have to be overwhelming. By assessing your space, recognizing your experience level, and celebrating a variety of plants, you will not only care for your plants but also enhance your connection to nature.
So take that first step—start your journey to becoming a proud plant parent! Your living space and your overall well-being will flourish as a result.


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